It is often difficult to get an aging loved one to agree that he or she needs help. Here are a few things to keep in mind when broaching the subject of in-home support:
Family: Include your family in the process and talk to your loved one when everyone is in a comfortable place.
Timely: Begin talking about extra help early - before it becomes a crisis.
Respect: Keep it simple and respectful. Share an experience about someone you know who enjoys home care.
Choice: Offer options to start slow and be willing to help manage the search for the best agency.
Backup: Offer to manage the interaction with the agency for your loved one.
Examples: Talk about the specific types of things the agency can do: driving, housekeeping, cooking, bathing, dressing, medication management, etc.
